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      <image:caption>“I didn’t post anything for IWD for so many reasons. For the record though: do I believe in celebrating women’s social, economic, cultural, and political achievements? YES. Do I support women’s equality and gender parity? YES. Do I support positive change advancing women? YES. YES - every single day. ⁣ ⁣However, I went to sleep on Thursday evening feeling more of what I feel most days - disappointed and fed up. If you have been following the disappearance of Samantha Murphy here in Australia, you’ll probably know where I am going with this. An Interim Suppression Order was put in place to protect the identity of the man who allegedly murdered Samantha on the day of his arrest. As a result, there was mass hysteria and rightfully so. The following day, IWD, this decision was overturned by Chief Magistrate Lisa Hannan and the original application was withdrawn by the defence. I refuse to say his name. His identity and who his father is/was, is irrelevant. My focus is on the VICTIM. ⁣ ⁣Does this man deserve a fair trial? Of course. Are his family also innocent victims in what has occurred? Yes. But what about Samantha’s rights? Her basic human right TO FEEL AND BE SAFE was violently taken from her while out for a run on a Sunday morning - THAT is what matters. And while the issue of violence against women is complex and layered, I’m so sick of the bureaucratic BS and the way in which the Australian media continue to (mis)report on this issue. Without a doubt there needs to be increased education and intervention, but right now (as it’s happening) it is the poor decisions (at times) of our legal system, lenient sentencing/prosecution and the media who need to pull their fingers out. Because guess what? It keeps happening. Murder is the tip of the iceberg when it comes to FV/violence against women. ⁣ ⁣It is so insulting to anyone who has been the victim of DV/family violence when we read stories about the perpetrators - stories that are seemingly trying to humanise them. How is it relevant? HOW? It’s titillation. We all need to do better - for those who have lost their voice and for those who are too afraid to use theirs”. ⁣IMAGE SOURCE: https://pin.it/tgEP0DcPw</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This one if for you, Oscar and Leo! You are so, so loved. And P.s you have the most incredible parents, ever</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>15th October 2018 - THAT MOMENT… the relief, the grief, the sadness and the excitement - all at once</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It was so important to me to document Charlotte’s delivery. While understandably this choice could be a lot for many people to process, it’s also something you will never get the opportunity to do again. You never have to look at these if it’s too painful, but at least you have the option if/when you are further into the healing process to do so. I want to thank my beautiful friend, Kelly Jordan, for capturing these. I look at these proudly all the time, as do my children. She was real, she was mine and she will always be part of our family’s story</image:caption>
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